MALU.

She is this strong woman going through the world and wants to tell her story to all girls or woman out there to show that they are not alone. Very private topics such as love or self love have been discussed.

Malu is the name I chose for this Blog and I wrote several times a week about my challenges, troubles and orientations. At the end it was never there to actually being seen and more likely used by my friends and other close people of mine. To sit down, writing down matters which you maybe just discussed with your friends over a cup of coffee has been very inspiring and clarifying for myself. But also, how the “readers” (my friends) were surprised about them not being alone with their struggles only that no one EVER talks about it. At the end, I didnt use the tool anymore and it also doesnt exist anymore, but I still think back and would like to use this experience for future projects.

Below you will read one of my blog posts:

“Everyone has their own story to tell. It can be something which just happened to you, or something which happened in the past but still follows you. How can we challenge them and make them to something good of ourselves?

For me, it was to give myself strength through believing in the good. But the believe itself didn’t make the job. It was me, putting myself into reality and always trying and stepping over my comfort zone. After my relationship, I didn’t put men into just one category. I strongly told myself, that not everyone is like him. And most importantly, I am worth to have all the good things in life. The only one, who can stop me of having them, is me. Doesn’t matter, what other people tried to let you feel, or make you do or worse, didn’t do, you are a great part of this planet, and you can achieve everything by believing in yourself!

This is just a reminder. I wished someone would have told me that. But for me there are no regrets about what I have done, there are only regrets about what I haven’t done.

Music I listened to: Hold on - Deetron Remix / Marbert Rocel